I went to bed angry. I didn't sleep much, and I got out of bed angry. Not angry like I want to hurt someone or damage something. Angry like my heart is broken, and I don't understand the world. Lots of angry tears....
There are accusations of people (me included) of being "too woke." Here's the thing, people aren't even using the term correctly. Instead, a word that started being used in the 1930's to raise awareness of social and political issues affecting the African American community has been weaponized. (OriginalDefination) It has been weaponized, in my opinion, to criticize and demean those who think differently. And I'll say it, pretty sure I'll get backlash, but I see it being used to continue to marginalize and control.
Cause here's the thing. If....
Respecting the honor and dignity of every human being regardless of age, gender, race, sexuality, profession or any other "catagory."
Apologizing to others when I have wronged them regardless of their age, gender, race--you get it read the above.
Respecting that others' faiths are valid.
Understanding that people are complex and one action, one word, one experience does not define their complete humanity.
Caring for others with empathy, compassion and grace
Understanding I don't have all the answers and that through talking and sharing with others who are different, I can grow and be transformed.
Admitting I can be and sometimes am wrong.
Striving for justice and peace for all people not just the ones I like.
Believing that every child deserves to feel safe and loved, deserves access to education and healthcare, shouldn't have to go to bed hungry and cold--really not just every child, but every person.
Recognizing that when we demean and tear others down, we are demeaning and tearing down the image of God in whom we were all created.
Listening to others stories and understanding their life experiences are different than mine and just like my life has been shaped by my experiences, so have theirs.
Recognizing that actions have consequences but also that doesn't mean second and third, maybe even fourth chances may be necessary for people who are just trying to do the best they can. Isn't God about second and third and more chances?
If all that is being too woke, then actually people are wrong, I'm not woke enough.
But I'm trying.
(And maybe we can just call it being a good human being and following God's command to love others as we love ourselves.)
2 comments:
I appreciate this very much! I’m also not woke enough but working on it. I recently read somewhere (sorry I can’t remember where) that we can replace “wokeness” with “human rights.” Thanks for writing this. I hope it eased some aspect of your anger.
Yes!! Just being a good human!!!!
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